TOPSI VENTER
An entertaining legend in her time and much loved
and admired food icon on the South African scene.
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One of the world’s internationally renowned writers, Robert Carrier, first came across Topsi Venter in the glamorous pages of his favourite magazine, ‘Cote Sud’, featuring an enchanting woman who ran and cooked at a marvellous Cape house in Paarl called ‘Roggeland’. Carrier’s first visit to South Africa and his first experience of Topsi’s delightful style only reinforced his enchantment.
"Topsi cooks with a painter’s eye. Her whimsical way of jotting down a recipe, her style, her daring and innate good taste," says Robert Carrier. Some years back Topsi wrote ‘Fooding about with Topsi,’ which illustrated her delightful wit and style and eclectic way with food.
Topsi is much loved and when she recently needed major surgery there was a great surge of support and the entertainment and restaurant industry, food writers, cookery schools and wine estates generously honoured her with a benefit held in Cape Town, orchestrated by John Jackson with the unstinted support of Myrna Robbins and Flower Walker. This was a remarkable evening for a remarkable woman from a family that played an integral part in the rich history of South Africa.
The life and times of Topsi Venter, in her own words,
makes fascinating reading and it begins…
1930 was not a good year in the Free State – a dreadful drought, high unemployment, the Great Depression of 1929 hit very hard. I was born on 26th November 1930 – my father having been the mayor for three years. He always said that was a blessing because for the lawyers in Bloemfontein there was very little work. The City Council presented a beautifully crafted Silver Cradle for the newest arrival, which was frequently used by my mother for her prize roses! Eddy (my father) – we children never called him anything else – did sterling work in finding employment for the impoverished farmers.
Eddy was a Grey College scholar who had gone on to the Free State University and his father who was a lawyer in Harrismith, decided that London was the legal centre to further Eddy’s education. He became an advocate at the Inner Temple in London.
He came back to SA to marry Eugenie Steyn (born 1896) the only daughter of the then President of the Free State Republic N.T. Steyn’s younger brother, Jan Steyn (of the legal firm Steyn & Vorster) and his Italian wife Antonette Vergotin; fondly called Dolli.
Dolli was petite, with dark curly hair and game for the largest motor car available, During 1929 she was a Commandant in the SAWAS’s Auxiliary Service, and after the 1918 War she had become the leading light for the Red Cross Service and she originated the Easter Stamp Fund, the funds being used to finance recovery homes for the children of TB victims, and she was good at this! She was always well dressed - coloured stockings to match, with an amazing hat on her head – she could convince anyone to hand over the cash!
Back home there were four of us; Dodo (Eugenie) Cleo (Cleothilde), Jan Steyn and Moi – Topsi (Pauline) we all lived through interesting time, Dodo through Cape Town University Ballet School.
Cleo, the best looking one, became a gymnastic teacher; Jan Steyn de Beer could solve the local landowners soil problems and I was sitting on red rocking horses with bows in my hair.
Eddy was made a Judge of the Supreme Court – he was highly regarded as he spoke all the African languages, spoke Latin, wrote excellent judgements and was also concerned about the fate of the person in the dock.
It was in 1939 that Mother decided we should live in town (Bloemfontein) and not several miles out of town on a farm, which had meant continual backwards and forwards travel for both parents. A house was bought and christened “Vergenoed” at 1 Essex Street, a lovely Tudor – styled house with a wooden sate roof. And every 6 months. Mother planted another tree – we had Jacarandas, Persimmons, Quinces, Pomegranates, a small vineyard and a veggie garden – while all the time my father climbed the legal ladder to become Judge President of the Free State and Dolli’s social duties increased a pace, which she never complained about. We all seemed to grow up very quickly moved into adulthood, gathering knowledge, friends and expanding our interests.
Where did my first 21 years go? I got married amid howls of disapproval – so I packed my bags and disappeared to Joeys where all my best friends were living. I found a mentor, Rita Elferint and a job. Rita taught me discipline in the workplace and I joined the National Council for the Care of Cripples. Shades of my mother! I learnt how to cope with the media, photographers et.al.
Then I was made an offer by the Dried Fruit Control Board and for the next 20 years I grew into the wonders of living with food. But in between dried apricots and brandy soaked prunes I got married to Pieter Venter, an extremely hands on and likeable man. He was the ex-husband of the now famous Ingrid Jonker. Their daughter Simone soon became a permanent member of our family and when our daughter Danielle was born in 1964 the two girls bonded with only 7 years difference between them, and Simone spent a further 10 years with us. Our cottage in Craighall in Johannesburg became a mecca for writers, poets and those treading the boards. Every Friday night we did a dinner for 8 – 10 guests and my food became quite the talking point.
The years went past happily – Danielle was an excellent scholar and a fine horse rider. Simone enjoyed her ballet and we hoped she would stay in that direction professionally. Piet and I grew apart and we separated when Daniele was 12. But the Dried Fruit Board kept me very busy with banquets for the Oppenheimer’s Art Exhibitions for Walter Battiss and lectures in Pitsonderwater. When Piet died Danielle was in Matric and the next year 1983 she gone to study law in Stellenbosch, insisting that I come to the Cape too.
And all the food people who came forward to help! The remarkable Annette Kesler of Fair Lady showed me the ropes, even how to cook in the middle of a mielie field, and how to get Billie Gallagher, surrounded by red roses and the biggest platter of rare roast beef, to smile!
And all the remarkable functions we arranged. Eventually all the ‘ pushers and pullers’ in the food world decided “Restaurant Time” and two hours before I opened the doors at 133 Hatfield Street, in Gardens in Cape Town, Annette named it ‘ Hatfield House’.
After that came John Jackson’s and Keith Blake’s newly restored ‘Valkenburg Manor House’ with ‘Rosenfontein’ and the ‘Wild Fig’, which I originated. Then came the move to Paarl and the beautiful guest house called ‘Roggeland’. Then a time with Hannes at Meerlust before moving on to Franschhoek and opening ‘TOPSI’S’ where my daughter Danielle has spent many happy years cooking expertly with me and to whom I have now handed the restaurant to her to cherish and guard. How privileged I’ve been to have all these wonderful opportunities!
Annette dearest - how wonderful to read about Topsi but oh so sorry to hear of her ill health. When I’m next in SA, I will buy a copy of the book. Please pass on my fondest wishes to her. I will write longer later. Love to you and Archie. Diana