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Success
Stories To Inspire You!
Over
the years Mary-Ann has received thousands of letters and e-mails
from people who have read her excellent book 'The Natural Way'.
Here she recounts some inspirational stories that ended with
confident journeys to true wellness.
Mary-Ann
explains that certain questions come up again and again and
shares some of the common concerns with us.
See
Part Two Mary-Ann's Guidelines for Good Health and Weight Loss
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Take heart from these letters from people that have experienced
remarkable changes in their general health, many have struggled
unsuccessfully for years to shed unwanted kilos and by changing to a
more natural way of life they have finally managed to achieve (and
maintain!) their goal of perfect weight and unimagined vitality.
I
Was Always on Diet and Felt Awful
My
previous lifestyle was probably similar to that of many people you’ve
spoken to. I was always a few kilograms overweight and I had tried
various weight control diets (where you weigh and measure food based on
points) as well as a variety of fad diets. I even did silly things like
bingeing occasionally and then taking laxatives, and I went so far as to
take a water pill once a week as I was convinced that I was retaining
water.
Apart
from the excess weight, I suffered from terrible premenstrual tension,
very heavy periods, cellulite, constipation, and repeated thrush
infections. I also had a virtually continuous phlegmy cough. I felt
almost suicidal at times, very irritable and weepy, and was plagued by
fatigue, listlessness, lethargy and anxiety.
And
yet for years I thought I was eating healthily – wholewheat bread,
low-oil salad dressings, low fat margarine, low fat milk, no butter or
cream, no more than three fruits per day (fattening!), very few bananas
(fattening again!), very little dried fruit (yes, fattening again!),
diet cold drinks, no sugar in tea or coffee, salads, veggies, lean meat,
chicken with no skin, poached eggs (not fried) – I’m sure you’ve
heard it all before. I also had a sweet tooth and found it hard to
resist chocolates or rich desserts.
Then
in March last year I went to the doctor with abdominal pains and he
thought I had a spastic colon. He also did various blood tests and found
that my iron and calcium levels were very low. So, what next?
By
chance I came to one of Mary-Ann's talks and this was the turning point
for me. I purchased her book (The Natural Way), stocked up on nuts,
dried fruit (previously both forbidden) and fresh fruit and veggies, and
I was away. I changed my lifestyle completely and did not deviate from
this way of eating for three months. During this time I felt calmer and
happier than I had in years. No more constipation, shorter menstrual
periods, fewer premenstrual symptoms, no more bloating, and only the
occasional cough. I had more energy and generally felt much better. I
had also lost six kilograms without even trying.
What
with all the festivities, I fell off the wagon in December and I felt
awful, just like I used to in the old days. So I am now back on track
and benefiting enormously from the Natural Way lifestyle. As a result,
people ask me continually what I am doing to look so well and slim at
the age of 43. I have now encouraged many people around me to go on the
Natural Way programme, and their health and weight have improved
dramatically. Many thanks for showing the way to all of us.
I receive this type of letter so often; in fact I could have written it
myself some years ago!
She was just as
confused and misled about diets as I was until I started studying the
human body and realised where I had gone wrong. Following the Natural
Way approach usually results in a huge improvement in overall health and
corrects weight problems permanently. I always suggest that you need to
give your body at least two years to get to a point where everything is
working in balance.
It
may have taken many years to get your body in to the condition it is in
now and a two-week crash diet will not and, in fact, cannot repair and
correct the imbalances. So take your time and you will be encouraged
almost on a daily basis at the results you see - a bit more energy, a
few kilos lighter, improvement in skin, hair and nails, health issues
resolved - and suddenly, when you look back, you can see how far you
have come. The improvement in the human body is a miracle. Just look at
what this woman achieved in a mere three months, considering that it
took her 43 years to get her body into such a state!
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You Can Live
a Better Life
My name is Clive
and I am 26 years old. In February 1995 my health deteriorated radically
and although I spent much time and money at the local doctor, nobody
could trace the cause of my illness. The symptoms ranged from headaches
and fatigue, to nausea and an increase in weight. After several months
my mother persuaded me to go to a homeopath. His diagnosis was
‘congestion of the liver’, but he was not able to help me much.
Then my girlfriend
suggested I read Mary-Ann's book The Natural Way. Well, it was awesome.
I could not believe that anything so simple could be so effective.
Within four months I had lost 27kilos, weighing less than I had done in
years. My body fat came down from 24 per cent to 18 per cent and still
continues to decrease. My strength at gym has increased by at least 25
per cent and my muscle tone and development is more visible than before.
For once in my life I am starting to feel good about my body and the way
I feel.
How did I do it?
Simple. I ate fruit all day from sunrise to supper and then for my
evening meal I follow the rules of not mixing proteins with
carbohydrates. I have also cut out dairy products, coke, coffee, heated
fats and oils and try not to eat after supper or later than 8.00 pm. I
still enjoy a good pizza on occasion, but always start with a raw salad.
Everywhere I go I promote your books and simple philosophy of living.
What can I say? We can live a better life!
I am
always overwhelmed when people respond so well
to the Natural Way principles and then let me know. Clive’s
recovery and weight loss is not surprising at his age. Firstly,
the younger you are, the quicker your body responds. Men also have
a faster metabolism and tend to lose weight a lot more quickly
than we women. Do not get despondent if it takes you a lot longer.
It just means that your body has more internal repair work to do
and is focusing on that as a priority. Concentrate on improving
your the health and check regularly to see that you are moving in
the right direction. Then remember to look back to see how far you
have come!
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We Are Saving a
Fortune in Medical Bills
I
have decided to write and tell you how The Natural Way has changed my
family’s life. Despite spending over R30 000 on medical bills, we
experienced no improvement to our health until we stumbled across your
book.
My
husband suffered many unpleasant symptoms. He coughed all day long as a
result of a continuous postnasal drip, and was always clearing his
throat. He started getting blackouts from the severe coughing (this
happened three times while driving his car). And at night, well the
snoring was too terrible for words. He took about four Disprin (an
analgesic) every day for headaches and raised temperature. And he was
overweight at 106kilograms.
Our
GP and a specialist had been treating him for asthma for five years and
he had regular physiotherapy to help him get rid of excess phlegm from
his lungs. He underwent two operations for the sinus problem but
experienced no improvement at all. In fact, his annual X-rays showed
that the asthma medication had worsened the condition of his lungs!
In
December 1998 I watched The Natural Way Video at my sister-in-law’s
house and in February 1999 I got hold of Mary-Ann's book. My husband and
I both started the programme in March of the same year. What a
difference! No more mucus, clear nasal passages and the coughing has
finally stopped. My husband no longer snores at night and he has lost
nearly 20kilos. As long as he sticks to the food combining, he is in
excellent health. In fact, we both feel better than we have done in
years and there are no more medical bills to pay either!
Diets
Don’t Work!
I
would like to share my health and weight story with you. I've been
overweight ever since I can remember. I recall my mother taking me to
the school clinic as a second grader to put me on a diet and throughout
my school days I tried several diets. In Standard Eight a dietician put
me on a high protein diet. For the first time I lost all the weight I
wanted to, but I also lost a natural, uncomplicated relationship with
food. The diet ended in jaundice, six weeks in bed and compulsive
overeating. Over the next few years my weight ballooned.
After
school I found a kind of balance - my weight stabilised and I
overindulged only occasionally. But I wasn't healthy and still felt
guilty about every bite of something delicious. I got married five years
out of school to a very accepting husband who never encouraged or
discouraged me to do anything about my weight.
He
viewed my weight and health as my responsibility. I felt the need to
take charge of my life so I went to a weight control organisation. Again
I lost all the weight I wanted to, but as a result of the low fat diet,
together with tremendous stress within my own business, I ended up in
hospital to have my gallbladder removed. Over the next two years I
maintained a fairly normal weight, with some overeating, a lot of guilt
and terrible mood swings.
Then
I fell pregnant. I regret to say that poor food choices, overeating and
stress dominated my pregnancy. I had a Caesarean section (by choice)
because I had neither the will power nor the emotional resources to even
consider natural birth. Thank God, my baby was healthy but I had
(almost) no breast milk and my weight was right back to where I started.
After my daughter’s birth I got Bell's Palsy, which was treated with
cortisone, and during the first five months of new motherhood I had six
courses of antibiotics for cystitis. I also had mild postnatal
depression. After the last course of antibiotics I realised that I could
not keep trusting the doctors to cure me. I had to do something about my
health.
I
got hold of the book The Natural Way and met a friend who combated a
severe disease through this way of eating. I started out with two weeks
on a 80 to 90 per cent raw diet and the results were so amazing that I
haven't stopped since (it is now two months later). My mood swings
disappeared and I haven't had cystitis ever since I started the
programme. Suddenly I had the energy to go for walks and my weight
slowly melted away. My husband was so impressed that he joined me in my
new way of eating.
I
believe that because I now focus on feeding my body nutrients rather
than kilojoules, food and weight are no longer issues for me. I really
don't have any cravings and I am learning to listen to my body's natural
needs and responses for the first time in years. The book has given me a
way to work around my emotional issues with food by not restricting any
of God's delicious foods. I don't feel deprived because my view of food
has changed - it's not there to reward or comfort me, but to get and
keep my body in prime condition. I'm sure that I still have a lot to
learn, but so far it has been more than worth it.
An
added bonus now is that I can raise my baby to have a strong immune
system and a natural relationship with food. Thank you for your book,
Healthy Kids. Just as I changed to the Natural Way she came down with a
cold and on reading your book I took a leap of faith. I changed her
formula to soymilk, put her on flaxseed oil and barley juice, and a week
later she was fine. One of the stories in your book changed the way I
viewed feeding her. It was life changing for me. The story about the mom
who never forced her children to eat stopped me dead in my tracks. I'm
learning to respect my daughter's ‘hungry’ and ‘full’ cycles and
now realise that food should never be a moral issue. Mealtimes used to
be full of stress but now we enjoy fresh fruit in a fun (and messy!)
way.
This was one of the many letters that prompted me to write this
book.
This woman had reached a place that many of us know only too well
- overweight, fed-up and sick – but she was desperate and
courageous enough to actually make the changes that turned her
life around.
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Good-bye
Cellulite
I have to tell you
this, after I read the chapter on cellulite in Mary-Ann's new book
Healthy Kids, I decided to experiment on myself, since I have always
struggled with it. I don't ever wear shorts, not even when I am fit,
because I always have lots of cellulite on my thighs.
OK,
so every day I eat tons of almonds (at least a quarter of a cup but many
times just over half a cup) with freshly squeezed orange juice, and I
eat a huge raw salad every night with lots of avocado. My point is that
I am devouring fats, plenty of fats, but not heated fats. I usually also
have a snack (many times really late night since I come in from work
late, which I know is not ideal but sometimes I am just so hungry) of
hot air-popped popcorn with lots of cold-pressed olive oil and herb
salt.
Guess
what? I have been pretty much free of heated fats for about four weeks
and the difference is phenomenal! Amazing! My thighs look, well, I just
cannot believe it. I have not really lost all that much weight, a few
kilos only but I was finally able to slide a pair of jeans past my
thighs that I literally could not pull up in a year (I bought them
thinking I would eventually fit into them, but was starting to lose
hope)!
I
keep coming back to the fact that, as far as my experience goes, you are
always right. I mean, things I have been reluctant to try, once I do
them, I get precisely the results you promise. It’s amazing, downright
amazing!
Annie is a good friend in the US and
she is really committed to a healthy lifestyle. The information in
this book (and all my others) is really just common sense at the
end of the day. It’s what you do with it that really makes the
difference and Annie chose to act on what she learned.
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Let Your Body
Heal Itself
When I was 24
years old, my mother brought me to the Natural Way lifestyle. I had had
an undiagnosed condition that had persisted for six months, following a
holiday in the Far East. I had clocked up a small fortune in medical
bills and blood tests and had consulted a number of top physicians and
doctors. All to no avail - just utter confusion and desperation. With
each blood test and new physician, came a new diagnosis – presence of
Epstein-Barr virus and CMV virus (tagged as recurring glandular fever),
viral encephalitis, Gilbert’s liver syndrome, chronic fatigue
syndrome, recurring myalgic encephalomyelitis, and so the list went on.
Deep concern set
in amongst the family, as the weeks were rolling on, and there was no
improvement in my health whatsoever; chronic exhaustion, deep muscle
aches and swellings, and no tolerance for anything other than work and
bed. Just at the point when physicians were at a loss for prescribing
how to manage the condition and were resolving to book me off work for a
couple of months, my mom purchased a copy of The Natural Way. With the
support of my mom I set about implementing the lifestyle
fervently!
The incredible
healing powers of raw, living foods and Natural Way food combining
dumbfounded us all – myself, my family and the many physicians and
other doctors I had been consulting. We found my body had begun healing
itself literally within 72 hours of implementing the Natural Way
principles. Within a fortnight the restoration was clearly visible.
After a month or two, my health continues to improve steadily and this
is all due to the miracle of the Natural Way.
Mom and I remain
staunch subscribers of the Natural Way. For me, it is not only the
lifestyle of choice after all it has done for me, but also the lifestyle
of necessity. I find that any momentary lapse to a looser diet results
in an immediate resuscitation of all the wretched symptoms. Thank you
Mary Ann, your book and wisdom were a Godsend. I consider it such a
privilege to have the knowledge of the Natural Way lifestyle at my age
and at this point in my life.
Learn That the
Body Can Heal Itself
As a Registered
General, Psychiatric and Community nurse, and a Registered Midwife, I
have a background in healthcare. I have never been fully satisfied with
the medical solutions offered to my patients, and although I admit that
today’s medicine does have its place, so many medical people are not
willing to learn that the body can heal itself.
A friend
introduced me to Natural Hygiene a few years back, and in preparation
for a gruelling and physically demanding hike I was to embark on in six
months from then, I decided to get myself into shape following the
guidelines set out in The Natural Way.
I subsequently
lost 21 kilograms, and had never looked or felt healthier in my life. Of
course, I was younger and did not have any physical ailments at the
time, but I could see the difference in skin tone and my fitness and
energy levels soared. I had also suffered from mild depression, which
disappeared completely when I started my new lifestyle. I flew through
the hike over six days in the Swellendam Mountains, but as soon as we
got back to Cape Town, the fun began and Natural Hygiene flew out the
window.
I have a family
now (and you know what can happen to your body after a pregnancy), so a
while ago I decided that it was time to take control once again. I
wanted to experience again that energy and health that should natural to
all of us – it is essential for living life to the full, whether it be
at work, play or creating a better future.
It went slowly,
but I realised that the weight I was carrying couldn’t come off in a
week. Other benefits were apparent very soon, though. The mild
depression and aches and pains I had lived with for so long, disappeared
completely! (Most nurses develop back injuries.) Through this experience
I have learned three important things: everything happens in its own
good time; nobody can change overnight; and every little improvement
counts! We are all human and have our limitations, but ultimately we are
capable of so much.
I have studied
anatomy and physiology but nobody can ever fully understand the power of
the body to recover - it has to be experienced to be believed. All we
have to do is treat ourselves with a little respect and the body does
the rest.
I have been
involved in a marketing programme for the first six months of this year,
where we would visit high schools educating the students on puberty,
hormonal changes and female health. I found that most girls had severe
acne, premenstrual symptoms and quite a few approached me regarding
weight problems. I knew that natural hygiene was the answer to their
problems, and I am so grateful to see that these simple principles have
now been made available to them through the new publication Healthy Kids
The Natural Way.
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ANSWERS
TO SOME COMMON QUESTIONS
Constipation
Q:
I
am going to a weight control organisation and have lost 15 kilos
of the 33 I have to shed. My main problem at the moment is
constipation! Each morning I eat high bran flakes or fibre bran,
with one teaspoon of digestive bran, plus yoghurt and a sliced
peach or banana on top of it, but this doesn’t seem to help. I
recently had a barium enema (which I did not enjoy too much!) but
which revealed that I have a syndrome called ‘Redundancy of the
Bowel (part of the bowel does not function, so they tell me). I
would be grateful if you could give me some advice.
A:
This
problem is typical of someone on a calorie controlled or strictly
weighed diet - I have received many letters like this over the
years. Problems arise when you focus on your weight instead of
your health. These calorie or kilojoule controlled diets usually
zone in on energy value and as a result remove any good fats
needed by the system that controls bowel movements and weight
balance (among many functions). One of the many side effects of
doing this is constipation and another is actually weight gain. So
as much as you may have lost some weight, you may find (as many
people have) that after a while the weight comes creeping back
again, along with some extra unwanted kilos.
Secondly,
many of these diets encourage a daily intake of wheat products,
and wheat (even wholewheat) can actually slow down your bowel
movements and in many people is responsible for constipation.
You
are also combining your meals badly (cereal, milk and fruit should
not be eaten together) and this can also result in digestive
discomfort and constipation.
Your
first step should be to focus on getting healthy. Follow the Five
Steps, exercise daily and get some natural fats into your diet.
Start with a teaspoon of cold-pressed flaxseed oil every day. Once
you have implemented the Natural Way principles in your life, you
will find that your constipation will very soon be a thing of the
past.
Sick
and Confused
Q:
Since starting the Natural Way programme, I am absolutely
delighted to report that I have lost 12 kilos. However,
after many years of never feeling ill, I had three nasty colds and
the bloating and gas I had in the past has gotten worse. I went to
a dietician who told me that I have a spastic colon and that I
should avoid all raw fruit and vegetables and eat only cooked
food. Well, I tried that and the bloating went, but I gained all
the weight back. I am so confused!
A:
This is also a very typical scenario. Why does someone who has not
been sick for years suddenly get ‘flu when they start the
Natural Way programme? This is nothing more than the body getting
rid of years of accumulated waste products. Usually the body will
wrap waste products or toxins in fat cells and store them until it
has an opportunity to deal with them. When you start a natural
food programme, your meals provide the right nutrients that are
easily broken down and used for energy.
This
allows the body to start cleaning house, as it were, and as a
result the fat cells are broken down releasing these toxic waste
products back into the system. The body produces extra mucus to
transport them out of the body, resulting in typical flu-like
symptoms such as a streaming nose, postnasal drip with
accompanying cough, and in women often a vaginal discharge
sometimes mistaken for thrush, or Candida. It is important not to
give up at this point and it is best to possibly fast for a few
days and then to eat only raw fruit and vegetables until the
symptoms disappear completely.
What
about the gas problem? Well, gas often increases when you change
your diet to natural raw fruit and vegetables due to the action of
the two types of fibre found in plant food (water soluble and
insoluble). This fibre is very important, as it tends to encourage
the gradual removal of old faecal matter lining the walls of the
intestines. Most people walk around with anything from one to 10
kilograms of the stuff! This faecal matter prevents effective
absorption of nutrients, so at a cellular level your body is not
being adequately nourished and it communicates this through a
sensation of hunger. Even though you may be eating a lot of food
you will always feel hungry and this of course encourages
overeating.
The
worst thing you could do is to stop eating the foods that clean
out your digestive tract. It would be better to take a product
like AIM’s Herbal Fibreblend, which is made up of a combination
of herbs and plants that will literally attract the faecal matter
and pass out of the body. Take just one tablespoon a day and you
will be amazed at what your body expels. I would suggest you use
this product for at least three months and thereafter use it for a
three-month period every year, especially if you eat animal
products of any kind.
Make
absolutely sure that you are following the food combining
principles to the letter, and remove all wheat and dairy from your
diet as well. You should find that the bloating problem resolves
itself quite quickly.
High
Protein Diet Worked, But Now my Weight is Coming Back
Q:
I went on a high protein diet and lost 47 kilograms in 10 months,
but I have since put on 20 kilograms. I have since discovered the
Natural Way style of eating but I tend to overeat on nuts and
fruit. What am I doing wrong?
A:
This is so typical of high protein diets. The initial result is
huge weight loss, but as you continue the high protein intake
starts to affect your endocrine system, and water retention and
weight gain are the result. From a health point of view, this
predisposes you heart disease, cancer, diabetes, arthritis and
osteoporosis. You also have a greater chance of suffering from any
problems relating to endocrine or hormone function, such as
allergies, blood pressure and blood sugar problems. (This is
covered more fully in the chapter on the endocrine system.) You
need to focus on getting your body back into shape from a health
point of view. Once you have been on the Natural Way programme for
a while, you will find that your metabolism will correct itself.
In time, your system will be back in balance and this means that
your appetite will have regulated itself too.
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Mary-Ann
Shearer, author of best selling Natural Way series, has been a nutritional counsellor since 1987 and does regular radio
and television appearances as well as many talks and seminars both
in South Africa and abroad.
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